Do I Need a Doula if I Have a Partner?
The doula complements and adds to the support offered by the partner to the mother, allowing him to participate in the birthing process at his own pace and comfort level. In this way, the partner and doula form the ideal, non-clinical support team for the mother. Doulas also allow the partner to take a break or grab something to eat without leaving the mother unsupported.
Won't My Partner Feel Left Out if I Have a Doula?
Some partners may fear that they will be ignored or marginalized if a doula is present for the birth of their children. Rest assured, the doula appreciates that birth is an important and special time for both mothers and fathers.
A doula doesn't replace a partner. Unlike the doula, the partner has a special history with and love for the mother. The doula can often take the pressure off the partner by sharing the role of attending to the mother's various non-clinical needs. This arrangement usually helps the father to feel more relaxed and supported throughout the birthing process and contribute to a more positive experience for him, overall.
A doula doesn't replace a partner. Unlike the doula, the partner has a special history with and love for the mother. The doula can often take the pressure off the partner by sharing the role of attending to the mother's various non-clinical needs. This arrangement usually helps the father to feel more relaxed and supported throughout the birthing process and contribute to a more positive experience for him, overall.